Relationship therapist, Blessing Okoro CEO has advised people not beg their partners to take them back after a breakup.
According to her, women should give a man two days and after that ask what they did wrong after he threatens a breakup.
Blessing Okoro CEO in a video she posted said;
“Stop begging people to take you back. Before people break up with you, they have already thought about it. If your boyfriend breaks up with you, give him two days and ask him what you did wrong. If he refuses to talk about it, leave him alone.
When people break up with you, don’t beg but talk instead. When you beg, they may accept you out of pity but when you eventually get back into the relationship, you would be behaving like a house girl.”
The statement Blessing CEO made shows why it is important to keep one’s dignity after a breakup or divorce. A person who decides to break up has already given some thought to it and it may not be wise enough to beg the person.
There is always an opportunity to meet new people who would be more appreciative and this why one must not lose his or her dignity after a breakup.